My name is Betty Forde-Bovell and I am a Cancer Survivor.

My journey with breast cancer expands from 2016 to present.  As one of the many survivors, we stand together triumphant, walking in the knowledge that endurance comes through faith, determination and the will of God.

In 2016 I was diagnosed with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma and, through genetic testing, I was found to be a BRCA2 positive mutation carrier.

Cancer is not an individual illness, it touches the psyche of every family member. I had first-hand experience as I watched the devastation as cancer ravaged my love ones. The dynamics of my family history is significant to mention; cancer has plagued many of them, starting with my dad who succumbed to breast cancer, which many people still believe is a myth. I have already lost two of my sisters to breast and ovarian cancer. Other siblings are battling with colon and prostate cancer, and one niece, who had to undergo a double mastectomy at a very young age, is now also a survivor.

As part of my treatment, I had four surgeries, four months of chemo and radiation therapy, which as a result, I am now experiencing chronic side effects, such as decrement in the white blood cells, neuropathy of the hands and feet, lymphedema (protein fluid) in the breast and some psychological setbacks attributed to this disease.  Cancer treatment is an ongoing process and I have to follow up with MRIs’, mammograms, breast bilateral with contrast, lab work, physiotherapy, and a plethora of medications.

Cancer takes total priority of one’s life, but with the help of thoughtful, kindhearted family members and friends giving encouragement, uplifting and embracing me through my moment of pain, hurt and sadness, I can now say that I am a Survivor under God’s watchful eyes and grace.

Breast cancer is not a death sentence! Early detection and modern medication play a pivotal role in the treatment of cancer. There is hope! I have learnt to navigate, cope and accept this is the new me; the will to live takes determination, strength and faith that only God can give.  In this walk called life, we will always have tribulations, each one of us has our own cross to carry; but it is how we carry that cross. “Through all the storms of life, just know you have a comforter; Jesus.”  I awake each morning with a prayer, looking forward for my tomorrows. Never give up or give in, hold on to God’s unchanging hands.

I extend greatest appreciation to BACA for allowing me the opportunity to share my story and in so doing I hope it will give encouragement to those who have been diagnosed.  I acknowledge my family and friends, too numerous to mention, my husband and sons for all their continuous love and moral support.  I love you all.